OUR PROCESS
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The first step starts with you completing our confidential online application form.
Select your membership option
Platinum - Match Me Our tailored ‘Priority-You’ bespoke service is dedicated to finding your true match. Membership includes a personally assigned matchmaker, face-to-face consultation(s), a professional photoshoot to capture you, an authentically crafted profile, and wraparound support throughout your relationship journey. Platinum – Match Me clients will also receive priority access to Curated by Compatico Services, Events & Experiences.
Gold - Matchable As a ‘Matchable’ member, you’ll be included in our private and secure singles community (accessible only to our matchmaking team), giving you opportunities to be selected for a match. Membership includes a face-to-face online consultation and an authentically crafted profile – together with access to our exclusive Curated by Compatico Services, Events & Experiences.
Unsure which option is right for you? We invite you to book an obligation-free, 15-minute introductory chat online (available for a limited time). One of our Compatico team can answer any questions you may have and guide you with your membership selection.
Complete your MOJ security check
For your safety, Compatico is strictly ‘vetted members only’. That’s why a non-negotiable condition of our membership is that all of our members complete a Ministry of Justice security clearance. We use staff checks NZ to provide this service.
Confirming your membership
Once we’ve received your completed application form, one of our matchmakers will be in contact.
Platinum – Match Me applicants will hear from us within 48 hours. If you’re a Gold - Matchable applicant, we’ll acknowledge your application and contact you within a week.
Getting to know you
An introductory face-to-face online consultation (60 mins).
One of our specialist matchmakers will review your application form, then contact you to arrange your introductory face-to-face online chat (around 60 minutes). This step is fundamental to ensuring your matchmaking experience is positive, exciting and fulfilling. By understanding your relationship goals, we can ensure you’re ready for your matching journey.
A deeper understanding
We’ll then ask you to complete our proprietary, 15-minute Compaticoder survey.
Developed by our Compatico Team to gain a deeper understanding of your personality traits, values, emotional profile and relationship expectations.
Our Platinum – Match Me clients will be invited to attend an additional, in-person, face-to-face meeting so our matchmakers can get to know you further, build a stronger client relationship, and discuss any insights from your survey.
Your True Match Profile
We will help you make a first impression that stands out.
Our team is focused on finding the best match for you and helping you make a fabulous first impression. Using our proprietary Compaticoder profiling and research-based Q&A consultation(s), we’ll craft an authentic introductory profile that’s a true reflection of you. Think of it as a CV for matchmaking.
Match Away
You are in good hands.
Our team of qualified and empathetic matchmakers has more than 50 years’ experience of successfully understanding and connecting people. With an innate ability to understand the nuances of people, experience at matching compatibilities and knowing what is most likely to create ‘great chemistry’, our skilled team is on top of their game and highly focused on your success.
We make your search for a relationship, personal.
OUR COMPATICO CULTURE
Our services are built on a culture of mutual respect and a reciprocal etiquette of privacy, honesty and empathy that we ask our members to embrace.
The Compatico Culture has been designed to ensure that your matchmaking experience is positive and empowering – and builds your confidence and enthusiasm for dating (again).
Even if your date is not ‘the one’, we aim to ensure you’ll value and enjoy the experience. Our curated singles events are the ideal way to practise your skills, meet like-minded people and have some fun!
WHAT OUR MEMBERS SAY
“Working with the Compatico team has saved me so much time and effort and I feel really excited about the services and connections presented.”
MARIA, 49PROFESSIONAL
“I have worked with several dating services and quite frankly had got very disillusioned. Compatico is a breath of fresh air”.
JOANNA, 66Retired business owner / landlord
“It’s really refreshing to work with a team who get my style and my life and love aspirations. Compatico delivers a truly premium service”.
MAURICE, 71COMPANY DIRECTOR
“Finding love is hard, and it is particularly difficult today. The loneliness epidemic is real, and people crave connection with real people. Connection creates a ripple effect which makes for a better world. The prospect of creating many more connections through the exemplary service curated for Compatico excites me and I am delighted to be part of this much-needed service in New Zealand.”
With a background as a psychologist, relationship therapist (Emotion Focussed Therapy trained) and corporate leadership coach, Tiare brings all her knowledge into the collaborative co-creation of Compatico. Tiare’s core value is entrenched in connection, and she is delighted to bring her professional acumen and deep understanding of human behaviour to this service.
Beyond the initial allure and excitement of a new romance Tiare knows the essential elements required to nurture healthy and fulfilling relationships. She is enthusiastic about contributing to the creation of more authentic love in the world by sharing her knowledge and insights with the Compatico community.
Tiare Tolks
BA, MSc (first-class hons), PGDip (Health Psychology)
Managing Partner
Compatico Relationship Expert